Understanding Controlling and Coercive Behaviour in Young People’s Relationships
This subtopic equips learners with the knowledge to distinguish between control and coercion within young people's relationships, recognising that control often involves ongoing patterns of dominance while coercion uses force or threats to compel compliance. It covers identification of behavioural signs, vulnerability factors (e.g., isolation, low self-esteem), and practical strategies for safely intervening and supporting affected individuals. The content also addresses the profound long-term psychological and social effects, preparing learners to apply this understanding in real-world contexts and assessments.
Assessment criteria
Topic Overview
This unit explores the dynamics of controlling and coercive behaviour in young people's relationships, a critical aspect of the ETCAL Level 1 Award in Understanding Controlling and Coercive Behaviour in Young People’s Relationships. It covers what constitutes controlling and coercive behaviour, how it differs from other forms of abuse, and why it is particularly relevant in adolescent relationships. Students will learn to identify warning signs, understand the impact on victims, and recognise the legal framework in the UK, including the Serious Crime Act 2015 which criminalises controlling or coercive behaviour in intimate or family relationships.
Understanding this topic is vital for young people to foster healthy relationships and safeguard themselves and their peers. The curriculum emphasises real-life scenarios, helping students distinguish between normal relationship conflicts and abusive patterns. It also addresses the role of digital technology, such as monitoring social media or tracking location, as common coercive tactics. By the end of this unit, students should be able to define key terms, describe examples of controlling behaviour, and explain why victims may not seek help.
This qualification fits within the broader context of personal, social, health and economic (PSHE) education and citizenship. It equips learners with knowledge to challenge harmful norms and support friends who may be experiencing abuse. The unit also lays groundwork for further study in safeguarding, youth work, or health and social care.
Key Concepts
Core ideas you must understand for this topic
- →Controlling behaviour: A range of acts designed to make a person subordinate or dependent, including isolating them from sources of support, exploiting their resources, and depriving them of independence.
- →Coercive behaviour: An act or pattern of acts of assault, threats, humiliation, intimidation, or other abuse used to harm, punish, or frighten the victim.
- →The 'pattern' element: Unlike a one-off argument, controlling or coercive behaviour involves repeated incidents that create a cumulative impact, often escalating over time.
- →Digital coercion: Using technology to monitor, control, or intimidate a partner, such as demanding passwords, checking location, or pressuring for explicit images.
- →Legal definition: Under UK law (Section 76 of the Serious Crime Act 2015), controlling or coercive behaviour in an intimate or family relationship is a criminal offence, carrying a maximum sentence of 5 years' imprisonment.
Learning Objectives
What you need to know and understand
- Know the difference between Control and CoercionKnow how to identify controlling and/or coercive behaviourUnderstand who might be vulnerable to controlling and/or coercive behaviourKnow how to deal with a coercive and controlling individualKnow how to support someone subject to coercion and/or controlUnderstand what the long-term effects of being coerced and/or controlled
Assessment Criteria
Key criteria assessors look for in your portfolio
- Award credit for clearly defining control as regulating or influencing another’s actions, while coercion involves using intimidation or threats to force obedience, supported by relevant examples.
- Credit given for accurately listing at least five behavioural indicators of controlling and coercive behaviour (e.g., monitoring phone, isolating from friends, threats, humiliation).
- Recognise learners who identify vulnerable groups (e.g., young people with low self-confidence, history of abuse, or lacking strong support networks) and explain why these factors increase risk.
- For dealing with a coercive individual, credit responses that outline safe, non-confrontational strategies such as setting boundaries, seeking professional help, and avoiding direct accusations.
- For supporting someone subjected to coercion, award credit for describing a step-by-step approach: listen without judgment, validate feelings, help explore options, and signpost to specialist services.
- Assess long-term effects knowledge by looking for mention of anxiety, depression, PTSD, low self-worth, and difficulties in future relationships, with connection to how these impact daily life.
Assessment Guidance
Guidance for achieving higher grades
- 💡Use the Power and Control Wheel for teens (adapted from Duluth Model) as a framework to structure identification and support answers, linking each tactic to a behavioural sign.
- 💡In role-play or scenario-based assessments, demonstrate active listening and empathy when supporting a victim, avoiding giving direct orders; instead, say ‘You could consider…’
- 💡For written work, always back up points with age-appropriate case studies or statistics, e.g., referencing studies on digital coercion in teenage relationships.
- 💡When answering on long-term effects, connect each effect to a real-life consequence (e.g., education disruption, trust issues) to show depth of understanding beyond simple listing.
- 💡Remember to differentiate immediate responses (ensuring safety, listening) from long-term support (therapy, rebuilding networks), which shows holistic grasp expected at this level.
- 💡Use specific examples from case studies or scenarios to illustrate each type of behaviour. For instance, describe how a partner might demand to see phone messages as a form of digital control.
- 💡Link your answers to the legal framework. Mentioning the Serious Crime Act 2015 and its requirements (e.g., the behaviour must have a serious effect on the victim) can earn higher marks.
- 💡Explain the impact on the victim's daily life, such as changes in behaviour, isolation from friends, or declining mental health. This shows depth of understanding beyond definitions.
Common Mistakes
Common errors to avoid in your coursework
- Confusing control with coercion: some learners treat the terms as identical, missing that control can be subtle and ongoing without overt threats, while coercion explicitly uses force or fear.
- Assuming all controlling behaviour is intentional or malicious, overlooking that some young people may not realise their actions are controlling due to societal norms or learned patterns.
- Focusing solely on physical abuse, neglecting emotional, psychological, financial, and digital forms of control and coercion prevalent in young people's relationships.
- Believing that only certain ‘types’ of people are vulnerable, failing to recognise that anyone can become a victim, especially if gradually manipulated by a trusted partner.
- Proposing aggressive or confrontational methods when dealing with a controlling individual, which can escalate risk, rather than prioritising safety and professional intervention.
- Overlooking the importance of self-care for supporters, assuming they do not need boundaries or may become overly invested, which can lead to burnout or dangerous situations.
- Misconception: Controlling behaviour is only physical violence. Correction: It can be psychological, emotional, financial, or digital, and often occurs without physical harm.
- Misconception: If the victim doesn't say 'no', it's not coercive. Correction: Coercion can involve subtle pressure, fear of consequences, or manipulation, so a victim may comply without consent.
- Misconception: Only adults experience coercive control. Correction: Young people in teenage relationships are also vulnerable, and patterns can start early, affecting their wellbeing and development.
Frequently Asked Questions
Common questions students ask about this topic
Pass / Merit / Distinction Evidence Checklist
How your portfolio evidence is graded for ETC AWARDS LIMITED Understanding Controlling and Coercive Behaviour in Young People’s Relationships
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Before You Start
Prior knowledge that will help with this topic
- •Basic understanding of healthy vs unhealthy relationships (e.g., from PSHE or citizenship lessons).
- •Familiarity with the concept of consent and personal boundaries.
- •Awareness of different forms of abuse (physical, emotional, sexual) as a foundation for recognising coercive control.
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Key Terminology
Essential terms to know
- Know the difference between Control and CoercionKnow how to identify controlling and/or coercive behaviourUnderstand who might be vulnerable to controlling and/or coercive behaviourKnow how to deal with a coercive and controlling individualKnow how to support someone subject to coercion and/or controlUnderstand what the long-term effects of being coerced and/or controlled
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