Practices: the marriage ceremony

The idea

The Jewish marriage ceremony (Kiddushin and Nisuin) is a profound spiritual event uniting two people under God. It takes place under a chuppah (canopy), symbolising the couple's new home and the openness of Abraham's tent. Key rituals include the signing and reading of the ketubah (marriage contract), which outlines the husband's duties. The groom places a plain ring on the bride's finger, declaring her consecrated to him. Seven blessings (Sheva Brachot) are recited, praising God for creation and joy. Finally, the groom breaks a glass under his foot, serving as a poignant reminder of the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem, demonstrating that even in moments of supreme joy, Jews remember their history and communal sorrow.

What earns the marks

• Explain the symbolism of the chuppah as the couple's new home and God's sheltering presence.
• Describe the role of the ketubah as a legal and spiritual marriage contract detailing responsibilities.
• Detail the exchange of the ring or rings as a symbol of eternal commitment and consecration.
• Explain the breaking of the glass as a reminder of the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem.

Common mistakes and how to put them right

• Confusing the chuppah with a simple decoration.

  Put it right: Explain it symbolises the couple's new home and God's presence.

• Stating the glass is broken for good luck.

  Put it right: It is broken to remember the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem.

• Assuming the ketubah is just a modern certificate.

  Put it right: It is a traditional legal contract outlining the husband's obligations to his wife.

Exam tips

• Use specific Hebrew terms like chuppah and ketubah to demonstrate accurate subject knowledge.
• Link the breaking of the glass to the broader Jewish theme of remembering historical hardship during joyous occasions.
• When evaluating the importance of marriage, contrast Orthodox and Reform practices, such as both partners exchanging rings in Reform Judaism.